RELATIONSHIP TIPS –

HOW TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY TOGETHER.

ü  Strive for balance, setting reasonable boundaries to protect your marriage, while remaining cooperative with the other parent to the extent possible.

ü  Love peace and maintain peace all the time.

ü  Be truthful, trustworthy and have the fear of God in you at all times.

ü  Deal with all matters with utmost carefulness and sincerity of heart.

ü  Be patience, slow to speak and quick to hear.

ü  Have a big heart, be tolerable and care for all.

ü  Treat everybody in your family equally.

ü  Be concern, feel what they feel and never feel unconcern.

ü  Always contribute your quota, no matter how small.

ü  Never speak badly of your husband, wife or either family in the presence of any family member or in the presence of the children.

ü  Avoid scheduling activities for your children when they need to spend the time with other children or family member.

ü  If you cannot adjust the time, get permission from them.

ü  Always welcome either family member with warmth and affection when they come calling.

ü  Always lend a helping hand

ü  Set a consistent rule and discipline in your family and let it applied to everybody living with you, let there be no exception.

ü  Don’t be hard in correcting any member of your family, either adult or children, let the affection come naturally and try to build a mutual understanding with them.

ü  Tell your relatives and friends about your commitment to your family.

ü  Explain politely how hurt the children will be if they are passed or ignore when it comes to attention and other kindnesses.

ü  Try to let grand parents have place in your children’s lives.

ü  Identify the relative or friend with whom you have the most difficult relationship, and then discuss with your hubby how you can improve that relationship.

ü  Identify your spouse’s area of weakness and offer to help.

ü  Love your in-laws like your own family members.

ü  Love your mother in-laws like your own mother.

ü  Learn to pray together with your family, and include your in-laws whenever they are around.